My grace is sufficient for
you,
for My power is made perfect in weakness. 2 Corinthians 12:9
for My power is made perfect in weakness. 2 Corinthians 12:9
One
evening about a decade ago, I was lounging on the sofa channel surfing and just
happened upon a feature about grandparents raising their grandchildren.
An
Epic Great-Grandmother
"I'm
80 years old, I've raised three children, four grandchildren and now I'm
raising my two great-grandchildren. The youngest is eighteen months," she
said proudly to the reporter.Under her watchful eye the toddler teetered precariously to the coffee table. Perched comfortably on the sill of a large bay window looking at the traffic below was another child of about eight.
This great-grandmother seemed unruffled by life's circumstances.
She had peace.
I had self-pity.
She'd
selflessly dedicated her entire life
to raising her children, grandchildren, and now great-grandchildren. She wasn't
sniveling over feeling tired, giving up her life, or complaining about her
adult children leaving her to raise their children. Instead, she embraced her Encore life of raising her grandchildren
and made the best of it.
My
granddaughters were one and two years old when they moved in with us. At age 47,
I was a young grandmother by all accounts. Yet, I was exhausted all the time. Fatigue
and sleep deprivation from juggling a full time job and caring for little ones
had spiraled into a lame excuse for a grumpy attitude.
From
that day forward I vowed to remember that selfless octogenarian when I'd feel
overwhelmed, exhausted, or experienced a bout of self-pity.
Reflections
When we don't cast our burdens and
the cares of this world on Him, our peace fades and our strength weakens.
Remember:
every weakness you have is an opportunity for God to show his strength
in you.
As
an Encore Parent raising two
grandchildren, I know it's not always easy. There are times when I feel I don't
have the strength to persevere, but when I surrender those weaknesses over to
God, He's faithful to carry me through, every time.
Thanks for stopping
by, I’d really like to hear from you. What opportunities do you have for God to
show His strength in your life today?
-Beth
This post isn't just for grandparents, but for everyone who thinks they are carrying more than their fair share. Loved it
ReplyDeleteThank you for stopping by my friend! The goal of this blog really is to encourage caregivers in all forms and like you said, for those who are heavy burdened. I hope you'll stop by again!
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